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Sexcapades

• Stxndout, Taj Wilder, AJ • Season 3 • Episode 38

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Ever wondered if that post-intimate clarity moment could actually reshape your perspective on relationships and time management? AJ shares his eye-opening experiences with "post-nut clarity," the phenomenon that often hits after the heat of the moment. He lays it all out—awkward aftermaths, moments of regret. Through these candid stories, we emphasize why meaningful relationships should trump fleeting physical satisfaction, and the invaluable lessons learned along the way.

Navigating the modern dating scene can feel like walking through a minefield. From the quirks of online dating to the often confusing stages of talking, dating, and dating exclusively, we’ve got some hilarious and heartwarming personal anecdotes to share. Picture this: running out of gas on a date or the awkwardness of early encounters. We also touch on why some of us prefer dating those with older kids and the unique dynamics that come with casual encounters versus serious commitments. It’s a real-life rom-com wrapped in insightful banter you won’t want to miss.

Ever been let down by a highly anticipated intimate encounter? We’ve got stories that capture the unpredictability and sometimes comical disappointments of these moments. AJ recounts a memorable situation involving music, high energy, and an unexpected twist. Plus, we dive into the emotional rollercoaster of infidelity and the pursuit of intentional dating versus casual flings. Through these raw and honest reflections, we uncover the complexities of romantic entanglements and the personal growth that often follows. Tune in for a conversation that’s as entertaining as it is enlightening.


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Speaker 3

elevated talk. She got your boy stand out in the building. A to the j you got taj, you got christy, you got marina. We, we back up in this thing. Um, I know that you guys are going to be hitting me up about the last episode. I might we might as well continue on this episode. Aj, let me ask you a question real quick. I know I'm getting straight to it, but have you ever had post-net clarity?

Speaker 4

Whoa. Yeah honestly, yeah, all the time. And it's beautiful. Honestly, Once you realize you get that mental clarity, you're like, oh yeah, I didn't want this at all, I don't want nothing to do with this.

Speaker 3

I say that because in the last episode we were talking about, like first dates and stuff like that. And, um, yeah, man, like sometimes, you know, sometimes you might get lucky you strike out on the first date and then like you're like damn, like, why did I waste? You know, let me go back. So my time is worth more than anything. So, like, I'm very clear and I I really value my time, right, like I don't, I don't fuck off time a lot of times. You know what I mean. And so if I fuck off time, I'm probably fucking it off in the house, right? So sometimes we have this moment where we might have a situation in life and you know, we might up into that point. We might think that damn, I want, I want this ass the fuck out of her. And then after, after, like was it really worth my fucking time or was it really going through all these hoops and whatever the case may be, just to just for this? I could have beat my shit. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5

So one time, I ain't gonna lie to you. I was just being real mad at you like I could have just beat my shit like no, no, no, so the shit.

Speaker 1

The shit was like the cat was.

Speaker 3

it was solid, you know, and but like I just feel like I just waste a lot of time. And then I has, like at that time I had other women in my life that was way more important, I would say, or way more valuable than her, and I'm like, yeah, like leading up to it, I'm like, yeah, I'm about to go get that, I'm about to go strike like a winner, right.

Speaker 5

Thank you what you did, as much and so like you.

Speaker 3

You know it might be somebody that you might have wanted for a while. Whatever the case is, you know. So we get done. And um, it was to the point where I had to ride home with the windows down, no music on, like why did I do this shit, like I didn't need to do?

Speaker 5

that she gonna be calling I really want these problems.

Speaker 3

So she wanted me to spend a night and you know, and the way she was hollering, I know the neighbors know who the fuck I am now.

Speaker 5

So that's crazy um, you can't never go back there the worst part is she pregnant?

Speaker 4

that's the worst part. No, no.

Speaker 5

So, like I told you, guys on previous why are we fucking with no?

Speaker 3

glove, like I told you guys the previous podcast one. If it was a random, you know I'm going to use the hat, but at the same time, if it's not a random, let's say it's like somebody I dealt with before. Right, Like most of the time they can't get pregnant.

Speaker 5

Let's hope, Because he dating the 45 and up club.

Speaker 3

Yeah.

Dating and Relationship Talk With Friends

Speaker 5

They already going through many parts.

Speaker 3

Most of the time I get a woman where they probably already had kids or they have grown kids or they're a little bit older. They're like that baby nowhere in the picture. I have friends that feed them Plan B omelets, but that's not me.

Speaker 4

This one real south, real quick, y'all Yo.

Speaker 5

I have no worries, I definitely have you slept with like that one guy like you thought you were really into he might have done a few things, that was like, and then y'all got to the bedroom and the sex was mid as fuck yeah, that ride home cause. I'm leaving immediately after. This was cool. I'll hit you later.

Speaker 3

Another devil talk to you soon. That's why. That's why the best is like to for me at least, like it used to be like to get a woman that like has some older kids, that like she's the one to start all over again and like she might have been like in like a serious, either toxic or long-ass relationship where she's not necessarily just looking at high down right away. Yeah, you know what I'm saying, but with this particular person, I thought I found that she was like she was already talking about like us dating and shit.

Speaker 5

I'm like, oh damn, yeah the dress. I mean you're already dating. She wanted to solidify her relationship it wasn't dating oh oh, lord yikes, we're talking, we're cool. I don't get. What's the difference between talking and dating?

Speaker 4

talking, you're just talking dating, you're going on dates dating.

Speaker 5

Yeah, you're dating, you're trying to progress more than talking isn't talking. Pursuing somebody though dating and talking to me you can talk to whoever you want.

Speaker 3

Exactly so I'll let you guys explain it. What do you got?

Speaker 2

There's talking, there's dating and there's dating exclusively.

Speaker 3

You're in like close to a relationship. Three different things.

Speaker 2

There's definitely levels.

Speaker 5

So, tawg, what's the difference? Like you just talking, Like y'all don't meet up, y'all just yeah. There, you know like a little bit more than something casual.

Speaker 2

Okay, Dating exclusively. It's like okay, how do?

Speaker 5

you get to the talking part, though, like I feel like you've got to physically see this person, I feel like that's a neutral oh fucking guys.

Speaker 3

No, you don't. How do you think people get catfizz?

Speaker 5

I don't know, I don't do online dating. I tried that shit when I was younger. I don't either in my early 20s but I don't do that shit.

Speaker 3

I did that shit one time on not POF, not Bumble, it was Tinder. No, I don't fuck with Tinder like you need to talk now it was kind of like Christian Mingles. That's the worst one. He definitely don't Christian.

Speaker 1

Mingles. Are we hitting any of these?

Speaker 3

it was something with a V. I can't remember the name because it was totally irrelevant to my life it was kind of like. It was kind of like no, no, it was kind of like Bumble, but it wasn't Bumble, it was before Bumble oh shit, venmo, you was dating off Venmo.

Speaker 4

Anyways Bumble, but it wasn't Bumble, it was before Bumble. Oh shit, venmo, you was dating off Venmo. Send nobody, that's all they had. Send nobody, it was a site.

Speaker 3

So you know, I already knew what the fuck this shit was. It was kind of like plenty of fish, right, okay. And so like I got on there for like two whole days I badged a couple girls off of there, me and this girl was vibing. We exchanged numbers, so we exchanged numbers. She's hitting me up. I'm like this. I know like God was telling me that I should not have been there. I was in my twenties, so don't, don't, don't judge me.

Speaker 3

So judging the shit, so I picked her up. I had a Camaro at the time. Fucking shit ran out of gas and so, like it's not that I didn't have the money, but my gas gauge was broke.

Speaker 4

It's even worse yeah.

Speaker 3

My gas gauge was broke. I pulled into her house and she ran out of gas, so I just had somebody come bring me a bucket thing, or whatever the case may be, and so I went to go get gas. We get to crib, we already vibing, we cool.

Speaker 5

It's hot as fuck as vegas um.

Speaker 3

So I'm like shit, like the ride. There was hot, oh my god, I get there.

Speaker 2

I shower right because I'm already, I'm kind of sweaty. You know what I'm saying you got to the place to shower. I got to my house like let me eat the shower.

Speaker 5

So you went to this woman's house, picked her up and immediately took her back to my house, like let me go shower. This is my world back up. So you went to this woman's house, picked her up and immediately took her back to your house.

Speaker 3

Yeah, and normally that's unlike me, cause I don't. I never used to bring girls to my house like it's either car, her house, hotel car, absolutely.

Speaker 5

I'm a car specialist. You said 20, 20, right right, okay okay, you fucking in the car at 30.

Speaker 3

We got other problems let me silent I have been in my 30s, I have been oh both of y'all sometimes you'll be in the moment.

Speaker 2

Wait sometimes, sometimes you'll be in the moment later on that though what we're talking about because if you fucking in the car with random strangers at 30.

Speaker 3

I have an, an issue. Okay, yeah, yeah, okay, yeah, whatever. Like, no, this is whatever. So so we get back to the crib. I shower, boom, boom, boom. I shower real quick, Yadda, yadda, yadda, right. And like I'm already shit, I'm already shit, I'm an asshole naked at this point. See, she already knew what it was. So she was the one thing. One thing's for sure, two things were certain If I'm with a female, I don't want no great situation. Most of the time I let her make the first moves, just so I could know, like we good, you know what I'm saying so we get back to the crib.

Speaker 5

Yeah, we get to the crib and.

Speaker 3

I came out of the towel like Diddy your story getting worse and worse.

Speaker 5

I came out of town To bring it right back to your house.

Speaker 3

Well, we was talking for like a couple days.

Speaker 5

Oh, my goodness 48 hours.

Speaker 3

So that was my logic right, and so we're talking, we get back to the crib. Young Terrence especially yeah so this is how you know. Everything was just not right, we know, because the car ran out of gas. My bed, my bed at this, you know, like we didn't have the platform, so we had the, you know the black shit that you put your bed on the black it's a regular store, you know.

Speaker 3

I bought it from the regular mattress store what's why I made you get that from. No, it was a match. Spring the box spring on top of the metal, the black metal thing.

Speaker 5

The frame. Oh, it's like the cheap metal frame. Yeah, the $40 frame, yeah.

Speaker 3

The $50 frame. You know what I'm saying, my goodness. So we plug it right. The shit breaks up, I believe it, all the screws come out.

Speaker 4

I believe it.

Speaker 3

The shit breaks up, so the shit breaks, so the shit breaks, and we just did a large-ass lump right. The shit went like and I'm like oh fuck.

Speaker 4

It went straight down or at an angle.

Speaker 3

It just went down. It went down like if this was WWE, you know what I'm saying. Bb and me. It's no stopping. I'm already midway. I'm midway in the pussy so that's quite going on, ain't no stopping hey, dog, I'm already in froggy position, so it's like, it's like if I'm sitting down there on her back, right, so I mean like I'm squatting and I'm like down there sitting on her back, type shit right, we already in.

Speaker 3

Froggy. So when the shit breaks, I'm like I'm already in this bitch, there's no going back now there's no deeper. Yeah, so she's going to feel an extra fucking angle, right? So I did that, and she wanted to stay the night.

Speaker 5

I'm like, where is she going to sleep?

Speaker 3

But here's the catch.

Speaker 5

No, no, here's the catch.

Speaker 4

I had a roommate at that time. Oh my goodness, I had a roommate at that time. Oh my goodness, I had a roommate.

Speaker 5

You did not ask the roommate to take you home.

Speaker 3

No, because the roommate. He already had his own situation going on at the time.

Speaker 5

Oh, everybody in the house fucking.

Speaker 3

So he had his own situation going on, which is when the main girls I was fucking with right and so she told her friend that I was home. So her friend is on the way, the one I was really fucking with Right, so she's on her way. I got this. The fucking oh tag. That's the shit Tag. I got the girl from Tag the crib.

Speaker 2

Right yeah.

Speaker 3

So I'm in Now. I catch wind that I'm not going to say no name. He texts me, okay, he texts me like hey, such and such is on her way, Wait, wait wait, I'm like don't do that.

Speaker 4

Let me get this straight. So you're not going to stop when there's an earthquake or the bed starts breaking apart, or somebody texts you or you're going to reach over.

Speaker 3

Hold on At this point 45 minutes. So I'm like I gotta try to finish up. So like I act like I act like I nutted, so I fucking spit on her back. You know, you know, you know did that whatever right? So so I cleaned her up. I'm like yo just go jump in the shower real quick, make it real quick and we gotta go, yeah yeah. So I'm like, look, you got to hurry up because I got to get to work.

Speaker 5

You let her have the water warm up. She had to just get in there.

Speaker 3

I started that bitch for her. I started the water we got to go. So you know what I did. So this is before Uber, obviously right. So I was like you want me to take you home or you want me to have a cab pick you up when you got to go.

Speaker 4

We. We're called like cab that's great.

Speaker 5

We spoke to him again in my life.

Speaker 3

I didn't give a fuck. It was on tag. I just met her.

Speaker 4

Jesus, take the wheel.

Speaker 3

Oh my god, I said I'll give you a cab if you want to go home. You got.

Speaker 5

AJ like sweating.

Speaker 3

I wanted to take her home, right. I heard her took her home, got back to the crib, whatever. You know what I'm saying. So obviously I feel like a creep. You know posting that clarity. This is the first time I have posted that clarity. So I'm driving home doing like maybe 80 in the Camaro, right, this dude want to race me with a Mustang on the side. I'm like, nah, fuck you, I'm just trying to get home. And so I get to the crib, I pull into the gate. As soon as I pull into the gate, the girl that I was serious talking to. More seriously, yeah, she's pulling up. So I'm acting like I came from the gym or whatever the case is. So I'm in basketball shorts. I had no shirt on.

Speaker 4

I'm in just in basketball shorts you got nothing on your shorts, huh nah, this is fresh shorts, so I'm thinking like damn I can't fuck her.

Speaker 5

I had the oil burns yeah, I had oil burns.

Speaker 3

But see me, I'm not that bad of a guy. So I'm like yo. I'm like yo, I'm not going to fuck this girl because, like I just fucked the other girl, even though I fucked her with a condom, I'm not gonna fuck this girl. You know what I'm saying. So I'm like you want to watch this one? Netflix was still kind of new. You want to watch netflix? I already got some good movies on. You know, I got to play it. She came over there for one thing and one thing she did. She was really trying to fuck and I was like I felt bad. I was like, baby, let's just cuddle. You know what I'm saying. Let's just lay there. I just want to hold y'all, I just want to embrace you.

Speaker 5

Piss off two women in the same day.

Speaker 3

That's crazy, nah, nah, it worked out. It worked out smooth.

Speaker 4

She, I got to know. Did you fix the bed before or after you got back in the house?

Speaker 3

I told her. You know what I told her. So the bed was still broken. The bed was broken. The room still smelled like sex.

Speaker 5

He didn't like no candle. I had the whole bedroom going I had the whole

Speaker 3

bedroom going, but the room, the room, the bed.

Speaker 5

Everything.

Speaker 3

I had to throw out the mattress. So I said I popped down on the bed and shit broke. So she really did. Of course you know.

Speaker 5

Whatever the case may be, I hope she watches this and gets the clarity she needed all the time.

Speaker 4

It was a damn decade ago, so she good now.

Speaker 3

I never talked to her, jack, I didn't give a fuck about her and she was super mid, so I was like no.

Speaker 5

Oh yeah, super, what Mid.

Speaker 3

It was mid because the bed broke it was mid because she smoked too much.

Speaker 1

I feel bad for the first girl.

Speaker 3

I'm not saying this to be a fact, but this is my logic. A chick that smokes a lot, her shit is not as wet as a chick that doesn't.

Speaker 5

Oh, it's dry.

Speaker 3

It wasn't dry, but it wasn't wet-wet. There's no.

Speaker 4

I don't know. That also depends on the man, yeah maybe she was not feeling it.

Speaker 5

I mean, it sounded hella rushed like from start to finish.

Speaker 4

I'm going to say this. I'm going to say this Anybody that spoke to weed and black and milds.

Speaker 5

I thought she smoked black and wild on her way back to her house what she trying to roll out.

Speaker 4

She trying to get you to stop at the store? No, she was smoking a black and wild as we were driving.

Speaker 5

I was like post sex smoke.

Speaker 3

I was like I might have made a racist joke, but you know I'm. You know whatever. I didn't know Hispanics fucking smoked black. I didn't know Hispanics fucking smoked vodka.

Speaker 4

I didn't know that either Epo baby. Y'all both had a rough night. She didn't know either until after you started smoking.

Speaker 5

I would have cried about it. Like the fuck did this happen to me?

Speaker 3

Nah, it was solid on her end. You know, she kept on hitting me back. I just ghosted her.

Speaker 5

Oh, you went back on to act.

Speaker 3

No, you get the notifications. I was getting notifications. I never went back on after that. I don't know about that.

Speaker 3

Needless to say, have you guys ever not in that situation? Obviously, but have you guys ever had a situation where it was like, damn, I wanted to give this since it's more's more girls and aj, you could say your situation but I wanted to get this dude a box. I gave this dude a box and it was nothing of what I expected. I could try to give him a bit for the doubt though it's the buildup, at least for me.

Speaker 5

It was like talking to him for a long time and then, like y'all finally get to that point. We dated for a while, we talked for a while, then came to the do to do and I'm a very like, I'm super sexual. So to be with somebody who's meh and it's boring, and it wasn't enough. And no, there was no coming back after that.

Speaker 4

Yeah, what about you, aj yeah there was a girl I hit one time and I was like, honestly, nah, we gonna be friends after this.

Speaker 3

Like you, cool. Much love. We gonna be friends.

Speaker 4

Like it wasn't. I definitely regretted that. I didn't want to do that, I just did it.

Speaker 1

Yeah, there's been plenty of times and that's when I have like the post. You know clarity.

Speaker 4

You want to say the other way.

Speaker 1

No, where I'm like. It's either I love you and I clarity. Do you want to say the other way? No, where I'm like it's. Either I love you and I'm going to text you, you know, after this, or it's either God, please forgive me.

Speaker 5

Please forgive me for what I've done.

Speaker 1

I shouldn't even waste my gas coming here.

Speaker 4

It's crazy.

Speaker 5

It's the wasting of the gas, like the energy, okay.

Speaker 3

I got another situation so before I moved to Nashville, right, oh good, I'm scared. So this girl, like she was talking good game, so you know, I've known her for years and shit, so I invite her to the crib or whatever. So I don't let randoms come to the house, whatever, obviously, this is damn near terrible, I don't I don't like people coming to the house like that not no more yeah, but like even before, like you should change that, even $40 she got the keys to the crib.

Speaker 3

I'd say $25 to now like I, I wouldn't let girls come to my house like I'd rather just get a hotel whatever the case may be, go to her house or whatever, and um, and so I let this girl come to my house.

Speaker 3

We was cool. You know I'm cool with her family and shit like that. You know I used to coach with her dad and her uncles and shit like that. So you know we already had sex before, but she ain't talking Greek shit. Right? This is around the time when 2 Chainz this is around the time that 2 Chainz I don't know, not 2 uh future came out, but he was like I don't got no manners for no sluts, I'm gonna put my thumb in the butt right so, so.

Speaker 3

So I'm telling I'm rapping, but like the thing, the thing about me, like my mouthpiece is impeccable. I could say that you, you know what I'm saying. Like I don't never talk about, like sex, I don't never talk about my dick game. I'll let you figure out for yourself, but I will tell you like I'm going to lead you to that, I'm going to walk you to the edge, right and so, without even having to talk about sex, I'm just going to paint this fantasy so morning. I'm like yo, it's shit, like cocaine. If you never tried cocaine, like the vibe, just the vibe in general is I call it cocaine 80s. You know what I'm saying, right?

Speaker 4

and so because it's like yeah, I got a nickname.

Speaker 3

I'm like you should caution yourself first, because you're gonna gain feelings. I promise you, like, not just because I'm not talking about the sex, I'm talking about just the vibes as being around me, because we're, we have fun, we listen to music. Niggas, don't fuck with me like that. You know what I'm saying. Nobody's going to impress me like that, right.

Speaker 3

And then going on dates I'm a gentleman, but it's a vibe when we're on a date, because I'm cool, kind of a collection, I'm going to let you get your shit up, I'm going to let you get your shit out, I'm going to let you talk, I'm going to pay for this shit, we're going to have fun, whatever, whatever. And so we leave the day, we go back to the crib. I'm like I'm on that future shit, I'm going to put myself in a bud. But she already kind of talking that freak shit, right. So I'm hitting it. I'm hitting it like a champ right and chant right, and I'm hitting it and she just boomed like crazy and shit. I could hear the neighbors stumping louder because they know that what the fuck is going on, type shit, right.

Speaker 5

And so he finally got himself a real bed for you.

Speaker 3

Oh yeah, this time it was a real. I'm older at this point, so this time it was a.

Speaker 5

I invested in that California.

Speaker 3

I invested in that California. I invested in that California king. So I'm just going like a king and shit, we you know we doing different positions, shit like that. So I decide I get, I get into that froggy. I'm like fuck it, we froggy. I get to the froggy band so I'm like fuck it. I'm like fuck it, I'm putting my thumb in the butt so I said I'm massaging this thing, and so we got the music going.

Speaker 3

He's like hey, play some faster music. I said, oh, you're a freak ho. You're a freak ho, okay, cool're a freak hoe, okay, cool. So I changed the music. Future comes on. I don't got no man with no slug as soon as he sit there. Oh my God, she must have jumped and slapped the fuck out of me. I'm like I'm keeping going and shit.

Speaker 5

She jumped and slapped the shit out of you. She jumped. She jumped Now she jumped and slapped you.

Speaker 2

Oh, she jumped she jumped, that's true.

Speaker 3

No, she jumped, but now we in a different position, we in missionary now.

Relationships and Intentional Dating

Speaker 4

So so she don't jump to a whole different position. You done did a whole 180, just absolutely.

Speaker 5

I'm disturbed by so much of this conversation. I don't give a fuck.

Speaker 3

I used to think that you know, whatever, whatever, I ain't even mention some shit. But you know, yeah, but needless to say, like I was I, I I felt bad for doing that and I felt bad for fucking her because you know I broke up a happy home, whatever you know, successful.

Speaker 5

Well, she was separated, but she was still technically married so she was chasing your ass after the fact was separated. But she was still technically married, so she was chasing your ass after the fact.

Speaker 3

I'm assuming. Oh yeah, yeah, but I wound up moving to Nashville anyway, oh my God, this story took so many turns.

Speaker 5

I'm not just dating this man willingly, like I got questions, it's fun dating me.

Speaker 3

Why wouldn't it be?

Speaker 4

Everything you just said, what you mean.

Speaker 3

Those are for the freak holes, not like dating, you know, those are just talking.

Speaker 1

I don't even know, oh, just talking Okay now be clarified what talking is.

Speaker 5

Is that talking?

Speaker 3

I don't want no words Dating is like I'm doing things more intentionally. Dating is like I'm doing things more intentionally. I care about your feelings. I actually take what you say into consideration.

Speaker 5

Oh, talking gets me. Talking is like you have no feelings.

Speaker 3

I actually take what you say into consideration. Oh, talking gets me. Talking is like you have no, you get left on read the next day.

Speaker 5

Talking is when you first see each other.

Speaker 3

You have no dog in this fight.

Speaker 5

Dating is like Talking sounds ruthless If I'm dating you.

Speaker 3

I'm looking more so towards trying to build a relationship with you. Yeah, talking we're just whatever goes goes. You know, I'm saying I guess I'm only dating, because what that's? My dating exclusively, yeah, I get a hot towel treatment when I'm, when I'm having sex. If I'm dating you, I'm just if you're, just if we're just talking house in a warmer absolutely why if I care about you, if we're in a relationship?

Speaker 5

A bottle warmer, just the warm towels.

Speaker 3

If I care about you, if we're in a relationship, why shouldn't I make you feel like a princess?

Speaker 5

Why shouldn't I wipe the sink in my mouth, but you can't get that in the dating page.

Speaker 4

Absolutely not. What I heard is if we talk and you get in future, and it's sticky, picky, that's what you're getting, that's what you're getting If we're talking Word.

Speaker 3

Dating is more intention.

Speaker 5

I'm so confused, I'm not even fucking, If we're doing this extra phase, that y'all talking about this talking phase. We ain't even fucking.

Speaker 1

For me, I think, talking, we're just talking, we're just communicating, whether that's in person or through text or whatever. Talking or just communicating, whether that's in person or through text or whatever, um dating, I'm gonna date multiple people and figure out which one I like and then I'm gonna date exclusive. You're the only one I'm talking to, you're the only one I'm dating and I take you serious having sex in the the dating phase with with the multiple people.

Speaker 5

Within the limit. To be honest, I'm probably going to choose who.

Speaker 4

I want Y'all are so disrespectful and inconsiderate. My man's picked y'all up in the Camaro. He didn't have no gas to begin with. He had to get gas. Now he's sweating. He didn't bring you to the house, he took me back to his house.

Speaker 5

night one Get your carpets.

Speaker 1

Y'all can use the room I you took me back to his house.

Speaker 5

Night one Get your carpets. No, no, no, y'all kids are rude. I was talking.

Speaker 3

I walk in.

Speaker 5

His bed is on a $50 frame.

Speaker 1

No, no, he's got a pretty car I'm going to be out of bed.

Speaker 3

No, wait a second.

Speaker 2

All that word is going to get you.

Speaker 3

It's okay, wait a second. Wait a second. Don't do me, because I'll give you an option if you wanted to go do something. You didn't know what you wanted to do.

Speaker 5

How old was she?

Speaker 3

I was 21, she was like 25 oh no that's why she smoked a black and mild.

Speaker 5

Because you're not taking me back to your house on night one.

Speaker 3

We've only been speaking for 48 hours we've only had 48 hours of communication, to be fair. To be fair, I don't know what it feels like to wait. Yeah, but I'm saying In my whole entire life, like I'm not saying it was the first night, but like somewhere in between there you know what I'm saying. So, like, like in my whole entire life, only two girls made me wait longer than probably like a week or two or so.

Speaker 1

You know I'm saying is it because these girls are feeling the same way? They just want to have sex too?

Speaker 3

that's probably why they didn't make you wait, like they probably didn't see it could be multiple different reasons, like they could have just got a relationship and you know, like you know they got. You know, you know how it is when you get out of a relationship like you're free if, especially if it was a. You know how it is when you get out of a relationship like you're free, especially if it was a bad relationship, you're free and you might want to try something different. Or you know, I don't know, I can't, I can't say for everyone, but you know.

Speaker 1

I think we're all messed up now.

Speaker 3

Yeah.

Speaker 1

Like the dating scene is like. I'll talk to you after the story. It's more like the same Dean Steen is like I'll touch me after the story.

Speaker 5

I'll blabber again in the car. No, you're on tag. Who do you expect? If a future song plays I'm turning it off yeah, y'all, run out the room, y'all. I stopped the online dating in my early 20s cause even when Tinder and all that stuff first rolled out. It was weird then and then, when I initially went back into dating after being in my last relationship, I tried it for like a day and I was like oh, this is too much like. You gotta communicate with all these people, all damn day long, fuck, no.

Speaker 5

So I was like I'll just date the traditional way, like whoever approaches me they seem cool, like I like them, they're attractive. I'll see what goes from there. But even in that, like it still takes a minute for me, like I'm not comfortable with, even like two weeks is a bit much for me, like I need to fill you out a bit before we start the physicality. I I would say like maybe three, three or four different dates, like if we are consistently talking on a regular basis, we call each other and we see each other regularly, then yeah, I'm giving you the cat, but I'm not.

Speaker 4

No, I've never had a weight longer than two weeks.

Speaker 2

I'm traumatized.

Speaker 4

Yeah, I've never had a weight longer than two weeks.

Speaker 1

I know what I want.

Speaker 4

I've made girls wait.

Speaker 2

You said you've made girls. Wait, I've made girls.

Speaker 4

Wait, there's a girl.

Speaker 1

She actually blocked me because I wouldn't touch her for a long time.

Speaker 3

Yeah, that's another reason why, like I'm kind of dealing with older women I want to say older, but like women that's older than you know, 25, 30 is because they kind of got they might. They know what they fuck they most of the time, all the time, they kind of know what they want. Like they, they know how they want things, they know how they. They kind of know what they want. They already did enough in life to to the point where they know how things can be.

Speaker 5

They know how things, how they want things to be, you know I mean, but if we're talking like societal though, as though women are frowned upon when we sleep with multiple people in multiple times, so I feel like that's. I mean, that's a part of the reason why I don't, but at the same time, like I also, kind of like I grew up differently, like I was raised differently, like I mean you can't sleep with multiple guys at the same time.

Speaker 5

Yeah, but it's okay if y'all do. You just said you had literally two females pull up on the same fucking night we already had this conversation.

Speaker 3

I didn't fuck both of there's certain shit that you guys get away with, that we can't. There's certain things that we we could get off that you guys can't. You know, men and women are different that's what I'm saying.

Speaker 5

Well, that's that's why the the conversation about talking and dating is even different. Like what you would consider dating, what she may consider dating may not be two different things.

Speaker 3

Y'all might have similarities, but it's two way different things yeah, but you know what the difference would probably be like. I'm just using you as an example it's like she's dating, she's gonna kind of know what she wants and it's kind of whatever, and maybe me dating, I'm gonna be, but you should be a front um. You should be like, look, I'm, this, is what I'm looking for, but I don't know exactly what I want, because I have, you know, x, y and z going on I'm saying so.

Speaker 3

This is where things vary, you know, and I, you know, I said this a long time ago um, and I'm not one of those fresh and fit motherfuckers or anything like that. Um, I don't call myself an alpha male and do all that. I'm me. You know, I'm saying like I walk in my own lane, I'm a rebel and all that shit, right? Um, men and women, the standards for men and women is completely different. There's, you know, life for men and women are completely different. Um, and I think the wants that men and women want most of the time are completely different. You know, I'm saying so. We could never want the same thing. Most of the time. It might be some similarities and some of the things that we want, but it can never be the same thing because we're completely, totally different.

Speaker 3

We think different or why are different, and when the way we maneuver through life is completely different. You know I'm saying yeah, like earlier before, like I could have five kids right by, like maybe like three different baby mamas, and that's cool as long as I'm taking care of my kids right, and I'm not saying that's for everybody. But if you do vice versa, on the woman, like she's confused, she don't know what she went out of life.

Speaker 3

You know, that's just how it is. Or a woman could be with a lot of women, like I could be with a man with a whole bunch of different kids, as long as he got his shit straight. But then, on the flip side, a man would be like I don't want to do, especially if he's a higher tier. I don't want to deal with a woman with multiple baby days, because this is what this is. What is involved in me being that I'm going to probably be the provider. Um, you know, like dealing with multiple baby days, dealing with multiple kids, that like fuck you, motherfucker, you ain't my daddy type shit, you know what I'm saying? Like a lot of things going to that. So I think, in a whole, man and women are different, so we can't look at it at this situation as the same.

Speaker 5

I mean. But that just proves her point she made earlier that dating is kind of fucked off especially where we are now?

Speaker 3

is that we're?

Speaker 5

running in these weird two opposite different directions. It's always been like that, though, yeah, but it's more emphasized now, like 90s. Like it was easier to find somebody even if they had like my father, prime example. He had seven kids and still ended up marrying somebody like or seven different women. He had a shit ton of kids, but he had seven different women pregnant. So same conversation, like it's easier back then than it is now. Like that wouldn't run on today's style of women like you couldn't have, you know, five baby mamas. I mean, unless you had that kind of bag, you couldn't have five baby mamas and be a plumber, have a plumbing company you're talking about back in the day or now now, like financially, it's harder to to be, it's harder to move, but even then, like optically it's like

Speaker 5

how it looks to other people. Like people are hyper-focused on how they look in one line.

Speaker 2

Yeah, but I think there's still women that their standards with that, they don't care. I think there's a lot of women that are like no, like no, that's you're bringing baggage too. You know that's baby mamas I gotta deal with, like that's a lot of. You know that comes a lot too, but there's still a lot of women that are that are gonna go with the flow of day and have no issue with being with somebody.

Speaker 1

I think it's like your status yeah you know, like what you do for a living. You know, if you, if you make money, okay I'll accept it. If you don't, if you're just somebody off the street doing drugs, whatever, I'm not accepting five or six baby mamas, no. But I don't know.

Speaker 2

Maybe if it's a guy who's making money, I probably would accept that the thing is different for everyone because, like on the flip side, for me no, like this is, this is still too much. Because alright one baby mama's a lot and I can't even manage.

Speaker 5

Let me put you in this scenario.

Speaker 3

Let me put you in this scenario.

Speaker 5

You might be okay. Like she said, let's say let's say.

Speaker 3

Let's say I make. Let's say I make like well over half a million dollars a year Right Right Now. Let's say I got like four big moms. Everybody's taken care of You're living the life that you want. I think that most women I'm not saying all most women, they're going to be like whatever, because I'm still living my life, but these motherfuckers are taken care of.

Speaker 3

You know what I'm saying Because a lot of times when guys have, when a man are that far on the upper echelonsons, they want to carry on their legacy and stuff like that, so like they might have like six baby mamas and like eight kids type shit.

Speaker 2

I know a lot of guys like that, like you know, even my og like he.

Speaker 3

He's worth it. He's worth a couple million dollars and yeah he has.

Speaker 3

He has one woman that he's been with for like close to like like 25 years or so, but like he has like seven kids. Seven kids, you know I'm saying. And so like he only gave her one. The rest of the kids is like, you know, yeah, two by this, you know, one by that, one, you know I'm saying, but like everybody's all good, like I used to play football well, that's how I met him I used to play football with his son and like his son is like he never had to really want it for anything, you know what I'm saying. And then, at the same time, the baby mamas, they wasn't really tripping, they wasn't really wanting it for anything.

Speaker 5

So that's what I'm saying. That is a character trait too. You clearly don't. I mean I don't know. Women are going to find what they want attractive financially to be with somebody who has a bag. Just because he has a bag he can financially support all these people doesn't mean he's a good person, like his character could be shitty as fuck, like he got all these baby mamas, but is he really spending time with all these kids?

Speaker 5

not realistically no different homes you're broke you're, you're creating broken homes and then just because you can financially support them doesn't mean shit what if he's there for all of them like? It's hard, you can't like it's still a broken home. I mean it's a broken home.

Speaker 3

But what I'm saying is, like what?

Speaker 5

if he's. You turn your child into a statistic before they even understand what statistics are.

Speaker 2

It's one thing if you were in a relationship with these people and then you had kids with them, whatever. But if you're like purposely just going, around having.

Speaker 3

You're just dropping off, okay, so what if has like two kids over here with this person? You don't have to. She, she's straight, she's taken care of, he, never misses anything important for those kids and he, you know, he spends time with those kids. They're just not with him every day. Anything for these three over here and these two over here.

Speaker 3

You know, I'm saying because I've seen a lot of scenarios like that, where these, a lot of times, these guys, they might have multiple kids, and I'm not an advocate of it or anything like that, because that shit is hard. I agree with you, that shit is hard as fuck, but like, a lot of times sometimes, even though it might be a broken home, like longest shit is straight, you know, I'm saying, and the kids are not wanting for nothing and he's making it to autumn because all kids care about if you, if you're there for my important times, and if I could spend some time with you, and once they get a certain age, they don't want to spend all the time with you, like, like, for example, my son was with me, uh, yesterday, as a matter of fact, and we went to my business banker, right and um, and he was telling me like he was just like how him and his fucking wife, they're fucking divorced. And you know she was texting him like why haven't you picked up? This is a? I don't know if he's Indonesian, filipino, something like that, you know. And he was saying, like normally we don't get divorced and shit, but we're divorced as fuck. And he was like she was texting me like you don't spend no time with your daughter, but like my daughter is 17 and like I don't, like I give her, my daughter, the option of, like you know, do you want to come with me or not?

Speaker 3

like I'm not forcing her to come with me, like you know I'm saying because at a certain point on age, you know, the kids didn't want to be around their parents again so, um, you know, if this person got this shit taken care of this part and it's taken care over here and over here, like, would that deter you if all this shit, even though it's broken homes would?

Speaker 5

that deter you, like as a if I'm trying to date this person or see potential in there being a life with this person. Yeah, you clearly don't have discipline. For starters, you're just out here dropping off kids wherever you can. That's weird. That is one thing. Again, if you were in a monogamous relationship, or even if there was two, separate monogamous relationships?

Speaker 3

What if he was in two separate ones but they didn't work out? That's totally different.

Speaker 5

But, what I'm saying. I'm talking about the man who's just out here dropping off seeds and then claiming just because I got a bag and I can afford to take care of these kids. That's a totally different lifestyle. No, I'm not going to pursue you. No, I'm not going to be with somebody like that, like you. There's something about you that you're not. You're not happy with and you haven't figured it out. What it is. If you need to a, you're unsafe because you're sleeping with everybody in a moment and you clearly aren't being smart enough to make sure that, if there was, you know, some aftermath, that that's being taken care of. Right, these women are having your baby. They want to have your baby. You've probably gassed them up to want to have a life with you and then, at the end of it, they don't get that Like you're a manipulator. There's multiple issues.

Speaker 3

All right, we can't use buzzwords now.

Speaker 2

Some women are a form of manipulation though Some women are okay with it. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Let's say in a candid situation, right, Like some of those women might be okay with the fact.

Speaker 3

Oh, you signed up for that shit. Exactly, you know they have the kid.

Speaker 2

He's always gonna be taken care of.

Speaker 5

Now you've become a bank like now. These women are always gonna have a handout and that affects your lifestyle. If you're gonna sincerely be with somebody, I just think it's a value thing.

Speaker 2

Like for some women. They might be cool with it oh, as long as my kid and me are taking care of whatever but I think it's a value thing. If you value family and like all of that, then that's not something you're going to want to go for because you got five other families you're doing it's like the same the same thing.

Speaker 2

It's a little different but, like when a woman has different you know, baby daddies and different things, they might be separate from them, but it's some type of connection from just them having a kid right so on a woman's standpoint, if you got seven baby mamas. It's some type of like you know leftover connection here, here, here, here it's a little too much, you know leftover connection here, here, here, here it's a little too much you know to deal with. But some women they don't care.

Speaker 5

You know, you got the bag, the kid taken care of I feel the same way if this was a woman, like roles being reversed, if a woman had, you know, seven baby daddies and she got eight kids, like the kids are always, but it's still kind of like dang, she got kids with all these people.

Speaker 2

I think as a woman, you're looked at even less than because, like you're not raising your kids like most women.

Speaker 5

In any situation, we're raising our kids, typically on our own.

Speaker 3

So if you've got eight kids and they all live with eight daddies, you're looked at as less than because you weren't warm enough to take care of your situation a lot of times, a lot of women to be house home givers like provide like take care of the home but sometimes, a lot of these, not every woman, but a lot of times, a lot of these women are raising their kids because that's a choice, not because of, um, not because of, like they don't you know, like a lot of times a woman might get jealous of that, the daddy might have a new girlfriend.

Speaker 3

So I'm withholding your kids a lot of times, times as you were not with me, you can't see your kids, or since you're not doing X, y and Z. So a lot of times, um, even going back to the day, because, like, we don't talk about it because we didn't see it. But a lot of times, mostly, if you go back and look at your grandma or whatever, she had multiple baby daddies. Why do you think you got the Greens, the Jacksons and the Smiths? Yeah, that's true. So you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5

I don't know how much my grandparents were like that Before they got together. My grandmother had two kids with another man. My grandfather had two kids with another woman. They got together. My mom was born. They had a total of five kids in their house. Blended families, yeah.

Speaker 3

Blended families.

Speaker 2

Yeah, so you know, papa was rolling stone.

Speaker 5

Wherever he laid his head was his home like that goes back to.

Speaker 3

My thing is, like you know, back in the day I mean, people always be like, well, back in the day it was like this, like no, back in the day it was, it was still shit, a lot of shit going on. It's just that it wasn't hyper, uh, put out there like that, because like they didn't have social media and that shit. But like most of the time, like you know, especially if we're going to go back to back in the days, a lot of these guys, they wanted big families and stuff like that. A lot of these men, they wanted big families and now it could have been with Teresa, monica and Nikki you know what I'm saying and they could have married all three women. You know what I'm saying. But you know, they just you know, you know, and I'm all for like this, like I, you know, you know, and I'm all for like this, like I don't me personally, like I said, I'm a rebel, I do my own thing. Like I don't judge a woman for certain things and I don't judge a man for certain things, I judge them how they're moving now.

Speaker 3

So like, let's say, like I used to do a girl, um, and she had a dude that, um, he had on top of her three kids that she had with him. Yeah, like three or four other kids, right, and like he took care of both families Always. He had big car. No, he picked up all the kids. When he was with one kid he was with the other kids. She like that. So. And then I dated her. She had, she had three kids and then now she has four kids or whatever. But like I didn't view her for the shit that she did back then. Like her past plays a part in her life. But like if I'm taking the time to fuck with you, then like obviously some of that shit doesn't matter as much to me as you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4

Like as this.

Speaker 3

I'm cool if a woman has kids, but guess what? There's going to be some law and order in this motherfucker.

Speaker 3

You know what I'm saying. I don't discipline other people's kids, but you're going to have some discernment to know that kids are going to be doing this. And if you have grown kids, guess what? They're not going to disrespect this house, that's my rule. They're not going to disrespect me or they're not going to disrespect this house, that's it. And if you got baby daddies, baby daddies can't even. We ain't have no fucking kumbaya's. You can meet me, but he ain't coming into my house, what the fuck do you need to come to Christmas dinner?

Speaker 3

We could be cool cordial, all that shit.

Speaker 5

I'm not sitting at the bar with you.

Speaker 3

To me that's some cuckold shit. You know what I'm saying? We could be cool, but why do you need to be in my fucking house?

Speaker 5

If it was to benefit the kids, wouldn't it make more sense to spend holidays as a unit to benefit the kids? Wouldn't it make more sense to like spend holidays?

Speaker 2

as a unit, not no you can do separate for this whatsoever, but for those families that do have the blended families.

Speaker 5

Wouldn't it make more sense to y'all work as a unit? I say separate. Oh yeah, I'm all for separate, look so.

Speaker 3

I'm all cool for seeing the kids or whoever seeing us get along and be able to cohabitate in the same space. Let's say we go to a certain place, but if there's something going on in my house, you're not, look, homeboy, could drop the kids off. We, you know, whatever the case may be, because you got to set the tone right off the bat. You know what I'm saying this dude, because I had the time to do have buyers or more. She probably still want to be with the mom, or vice versa. So if you want to be with that motherfucker, go, go to his house. If we having shit at my house, guess what? Alright, cool, drop the kids off at the driveway. What's up, chris Cool, peace, merry Christmas, homie and I'm out. You ain't coming to my house, even if you got to take a piss. There's a gas station right across the street.

Speaker 5

Not the gas station. He can't even pee.

Speaker 3

No, you're not. He's abused. I can't come in the house at all.

Speaker 1

So what about the mothers?

Speaker 5

They don't even get to say it's how I like no.

Speaker 1

What about your child's mother? It depends on how the woman feels.

Speaker 3

If she feels that she's not comfortable with that kind of thing, then cool, but I'm checking all shit at the door Everybody.

Speaker 5

So you would be comfortable. If you're in that kind of predicament and your ex was allowed to be in the house, she could come in and use the bathroom and my girl and my girl says it's cool, but you can come over and just have a kumbaya.

Speaker 3

Absolutely not you know, what I'm saying. But if she says, but at the same time no, but at the same time, for example, like my son, we have parties and stuff like that, and you know, you know we, everybody was blended right. But if the woman of my life, if she didn't want that it's over, it's done.

Speaker 3

It's over, it's done, it's over. Okay, all right, I'm not going to invite you to this birthday party, but at the same time we'll have our own birthday party too. You know what I'm saying. Like you got to use fucking discernment. But I mean, like I said, it's how my woman's feel, because, like, my woman goes here and it's my mom and then it's everybody else. You know what I'm and that's just how it goes. But if my woman was comfortable with it, then we could have a blended party. Me and this is for you buzzwords motherfucker, I'm not insecure, I'm very secure, like I really am. But like you got to set the tone right for that. Like I don't give a fuck about it too much, but you got to set the tone right for that.

Speaker 2

Like you know, because you give a nigga an inch.

Speaker 3

You, you know, because you give a, you give a nigga an inch he gonna take that, he gonna hold me in his box and I'm like you gonna come over in the refrigerator.

Speaker 3

You know you're not it's law and order in this motherfucker. Or like, for example, when my son's mom got a boyfriend, I tell him. I said, hey, nigga, come outside. I told this story before I said, come outside, let's have a conversation. I said, hey, I'm not in y'all shit. I'm not in y'all shit, I don't care. I already know couples is gonna argue. You guys gonna have disagreements. I have one rule is don't disrespect my son's mom in front of him, or don't disrespect my son or his brother. You know, even though that's not my son, don't disrespect the kids. You know, that's the only thing, right? So then I'm not coming in your house, even if I gotta take a bit. I'm gonna go to the gas station before I come to take, you know I'll come to the door, I pick up my son, drop my son out.

Speaker 3

That's how it was until they call me when it was a situation and I had to come guns blazing and guess what? He told the police she was there. Oh, he's dangerous. No, yeah, you goddamn wrong, fucking dangerous like what the fuck? He don't know how to talk to police. The police is on my side how about that? Punk ass because I'm a person. I'm a man, many people, I'm an honorary guy amongst many communities.

Speaker 4

You know the Latin, the.

Speaker 3

Spanish.

Speaker 5

Polynesian.

Speaker 3

But guess what? I have a problem with disrespect. And so if I gotta come guns blazing, if I got the police on one line and her mama on the other line and I gotta come, what was the motherfucking problem? I'm gonna show you what that I got to come. Oh, it's a motherfucking problem. I'm going to hide. I'm going to show you. I'm going to show you what that dude is like.

Speaker 5

So in your household there's a separation between church and state, so you ain't follow nobody coming to your house. You ain't going to they house. I'm showing respect.

Speaker 3

I'm not coming inside, I'm going to meet you at the door. Now we have a mutual place, like a Chuck E Cheese, for example, and we throw a party here, cool, whatever you know, I can deal with that, but if it's some house shit fuck you doing in my house for it.

Speaker 4

Fuck. You love those people too.

Speaker 5

You can't come to the house.

Speaker 1

No, I'm 100% for that, see, because, as a man on the other side, like, for example, you and your, whoever the other person is as a man, why would you want to go inside another?

Speaker 2

man's house, yeah, so I want nothing to do with that.

Speaker 3

I don't give a fuck. It's a house, but you can't. Don't think you can come in my house all willy-nilly, be all cool. I'm not here to be cool by y'all with you. The only thing we have in common is these damn kids that you know. Because if I'm dating a woman with kids, which most guys, younger guys and guys that's trying to build themselves, I don't suggest you're doing because, like, it's a whole story behind that. But you know. But guys that you know have shit together and they decide to do that. More power to them. Um, look, there's gonna be some law and order in this. Motherfucker. I don't care what you got to do with the last nigga, you ain't going to do this here.

Speaker 5

You know what I'm saying. That's sick, I agree, though.

Speaker 3

You got a doorstep rule.

Speaker 5

As a matter of fact.

Speaker 3

I don't even want to know where the motherfuckers know where I fucking live half the time 1,000%.

Speaker 2

They might be temporary. Oh hell yeah. Oh hell yeah If you got a new boyfriend if you got a new boyfriend.

Speaker 3

I'll meet you at your house or I'll come to a mutual location because this dude, I could break up. I'm not going to lie. Nine times out of two, nine times out of ten, my son's mom's boyfriend is jealous of me, you know. And then, most of the time, if I get in the girl he's not in the picture, no more.

Speaker 5

It don't even matter.

Speaker 3

And most of the time, if I get with a girl, the baby daddy or whoever is jealous of me. You know what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying. So guess what. I don't even want me. You know what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying. So guess what? I don't want anyone cared for him to know where I live.

Speaker 3

I meet y'all in a mutual occasion because if he knows where I live and he feels some type of way one day or whatever, and I got to put hands on, I got to put hands on him in front of the kids, or they know that I beat their daddy ass or something. Oh, I, the kids. Or they know that I beat their daddy ass or something. Oh, I didn't pistol whip their daddy or something. Now, now, now I'm melvin you, jody and shit.

Speaker 3

You know what I'm saying. Like, it's my house, you know because, like, like, when I get with a woman, I'm gonna learn everything about her if she has kids, whatever her ex-husband, her kid's dead, whatever the case may be, yep, every single fucking detail, because I need to know if insane, and vice versa, if my son's mom or my, my ex-woman, whoever, if, if we're, if we got things in common and if she fucking got somebody new, I'm gonna learn everything about him, because now I need to know who I need to bury. You know I'm saying I ain't gonna fuck with them once I move on. I'm good, you know, you know.

Speaker 2

I'm on.

Speaker 3

I'm different, but at the same time, if you're around my kids, I gotta know who I gotta put hands on. If I'm around your kids and you try some froggy shit, I gotta know who I gotta put hands on Hopefully not the froggy, not the froggy.

Speaker 1

Right.

Speaker 3

We don't need you frogging nobody yeah, and with with that being said, what's your thoughts before we get the fuck out of here?

Speaker 5

keep your hands to yourself and uh get a real bed frame, please, please. I entertained you guys in this podcast, so yeah, child, we have met about 15 versions of you this evening. I'm good.

Speaker 4

I'm speechless, I don't even, I can't even, I can't even tie the words. Is this?

Speaker 3

funny. I am a repaired man ever since therapy and music. You know like I? Just I'm cool, calm and collected.

Speaker 5

We need to know who your day of business is, so we don't go here, I got three, four business accounts.

Speaker 3

My goal has been teaching my son, show them how to open up a business account. You know, yeah hands all that shit. So that's what I'm on.

Speaker 2

There you go.

Speaker 5

Changed man Girl, you got a motherfucking problem. 21, 22 years. I don't want to know my mood.

Speaker 3

Saying is like this you got a problem.

Speaker 2

You better take it up with God. He had a Camaro, though.

Speaker 3

I have one he didn it was a project car. You know what I'm saying. I was trying to turn it into a super camaro y'all get real bed frames out here. We don't need no beds breaking in the middle of the froggery absolutely, hey, don't leave your girl around me too, back in the day no, he's talking about some current leads. I'm a changed man. I'm reformed.

Speaker 4

Diddy said that too I heard him.

Speaker 3

Thank you, but Diddy was lying, he had fake tears.

Speaker 1

He had a fake tear. He can't even look in the camera. That's a narcissist.

Speaker 2

They don't even diddy, no more. It's love he changed his name.

Speaker 3

No, you can't change it to love. He shouldn't. He shouldn't have that type of name we call you Sean from now on.

Speaker 5

He shouldn't have that type of name, because love means something powerful no, for real like.

Speaker 3

I want to get the fuck out of here, but I gotta say this real quick. So my life is kind of based on movies. So like have you guys ever seen a?

Speaker 2

den life.

Speaker 3

Yeah, have you ever seen a boomerang?

Speaker 5

Yes.

Speaker 3

I love boomerang. Okay, so my life is like merged between that.

Speaker 1

Oh Lord, that's wild, that's chaos.

Speaker 3

I don't know longer how that drama, but uh, like, um, I had that, I had a drama before, I had stalkers and shit like that. But you know, like now, like that's why I don't bring people to my crib, you know, because they might, you know.

Speaker 5

Yeah, you had to learn the hard way though we all kind of knew that.

Speaker 3

I learned after this stripper that I was dealing with, but she I wasn't really dealing with it.

Speaker 5

Y'all know this man I didn't know this.

Speaker 4

Y'all learned this out of the world collectively together.

Speaker 3

I say like this Once I upgrade from the Camaro and the Impala and I got, like you know, audis and Lexuses, that's when I changed Turn. Yeah, yeah, you couldn't be acting like that in no Audi, nah.

Speaker 2

Is that ghetto behavior really important?

Speaker 3

I was refined. I started hanging on more refined women.

Speaker 5

No, he stopped fucking with the young girls. He got with the older women.

Speaker 3

No, because you guys seen what the older girl was doing to me in a group message Remember.

Speaker 5

That she was older than you 45.

Speaker 2

Oh my gosh, Because sometimes the older women be like 45, what you mean? Yeah?

Speaker 5

exactly.

Speaker 3

Age of my memory, y'all seen this shit.

Speaker 5

Voice memos Text messages voice memos text messages like back to back to back.

Speaker 2

She was crying. You know what sometimes crazy, crazy, don't go away. She probably the same at 21. Thank you, thank you.

Speaker 4

You would work on her retirement at 45 blowing somebody else's that's crazy.

Speaker 3

That's what love uh uh, I don't even like calling somebody's women let alone blowing.

Speaker 5

I'm not sending you no voice memail. I'll be crying, you know how women get tricked.

Speaker 3

You know how women get tricked. Women do the tricking. Sometimes, too, they trick men this, this and this and that against my son's mom. I do this, this and that, and then, all of a sudden, it was all a dream you're sick. Wrap this up on that note, everybody style your tags at.

Speaker 4

Taj Wild at BBL Jersey.

Speaker 5

BBL Jersey.

Speaker 2

Chris.

Speaker 3

Hill again you guys, again. You guys will catch us at Elevated One Network. That's on social media and YouTube, and then you can catch my other podcasts on Standout University.

Speaker 2

Christy.

Speaker 4

Oh at.

Speaker 1

Joseph, marina I'll tag everybody.

Speaker 5

I'll tag the other one if the family ain't got no damn handle.

Speaker 3

I got everybody. I'll tag everybody in the thing, or whatever. Aj, you want me to put your new social on there too?

Speaker 4

No, not yet. It's under construction.

Speaker 2

He didn't ask me. No, I had to ask him.

Speaker 4

It's on the way, y'all, it's on the way.

Speaker 3

I promise it's coming. He didn't even ask me After two years of asking him 2025, it's going to be here.

Speaker 4

It's here Now, you're, yo, yo master.

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Terrance "Stxndout" Jordan

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Danny Willis

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